Mommy Dearest!!

This seems to happen every time I go to the damn store! No matter the store, it’s always there?!

WTF is it with these “mothers” that scream, yell, belittle, spank or smack their toddlers/children when they cry, scream or throw fits? I mean really people, if you didn’t want the responsibility of parenting then you shouldn’t have had said child!

Here’s my issue with this. I am NOT a believer of spanking (in any form of putting your hands on said child) or belittling a child/toddler, albeit I will admit I have yelled at my teen/adolescent children, but NEVER in public A, and B, never because they wanted a toy or treat from the store?! I have always disciplined my children with time out and removal of privileges, not hitting, spanking or belittling? They are people too, just little ones, but in my opinion, they still have a voice and an opinion, after all, they are our future! (Shit!)

I mean these women are just brutal to these children! It’s like “hello, ass-hat! That child you are belittling right now, is going to grow up, and when he/she does, if they don’t kick your ass or kill you first, they WILL make your life a living hell and not to mention OURS! What you are doing to that child is going to have LONG TERM effects on him/her! The self-esteem issues alone are huge!”!

So please explain to me why, anyone finds it necessary to look a hysterically crying (not to mention, completely defenseless) child in their face and yell at them and say things like (heard this yesterday), “No! You can’t have that, you shut up! All you do is whine, whine, and whine! Oh what, you’re going to cry now?! Keep it up and I’ll give you something to cry about, you big baby, you stop that now or I am going to take you out to the car and spank your ass”!

Ok, so anyone who knows me, knows I can’t and DON’T keep my mouth shut! I say, “Pick on someone your own size; if you didn’t want to be a mother then you shouldn’t have had kids! Stupid bitch, how would you like it if someone spoke to you the way you are talking to her?! Oh wait, I just did! Don’t like it very much do you!” Naturally, “Bad-ass mom” says nothing and puts her head down, all the while, crying little girl (who simply wanted a ring pop) stopped crying, and was doing the hiccup-can’t-breath thing. So I say “that’s what I thought” So I continue on my way.

Here is why this bugs me so much. I as a toddler/child/adolescent and pre-teen was “spanked” ( I call it beat, because it was with wire hangers, wooden spoons, spatulas, belts, belt buckles, switches, hands or whatever was handy! To get back-handed was not an uncommon thing either. I seriously has “Mommy Dearest, Joan Crofford” for a step mother!), I didn’t grow up to carry this “tradition” on with my children.

So when parents say or their excuse is “this is how I was raised and I turned out ok or I survived”, well, yes, you did survive (how I am not quite sure), but you’re still a douche bag who is taking your lack of patience, parenting skills and caring out on a 4 year old who can’t jump back up in your face and bitch slap you, and in another 4 years you’re going to be scratching your ass wondering why your child is so out of control and being a menace at school and getting in fights, then you’re going to blame someone else and stick the kid on Ritalin and say he/she has ADHD and/or “Anger issues”?! Well no shit?! Ya think? I would too!

God forbid, YOU should own that YOUR child is completely fucked-up, because of YOU!!!! These kids who have to go through this shit, 90% don’t have a fighting chance and will end up a social misfit/outcast or be all fucked up and somehow, that child will become the responsibility of the general public rather than where it should be… With the fucked-up parents!

My theory… If you wouldn’t want someone to treat you the way you treat your children, then maybe you should step outside of your little “box” and take a good long look at WTF you are doing, because I guarantee that if your boss, wife, husband, friend, or random nobody came up to you and started talking/acting like said bitch above, you would tell them to suck it and defend yourself, whereas children don’t have that luxury! Get it together population stupid, because I don’t want to have to deal with your monumental fuck-ups when I need my ass wiped!